True Love After 40

"I am in the process of making positive changes in all areas of my life." Louis L. Hay

I can say I have definitely been through a lot of changes in the last (almost) three years.  Some of those changes were difficult; others were devastating.  I've been redefining myself as I deal with the changes.  It has been hard and I am so blessed to have friends and family who love and support me.  Without them, I would not have made it through.

If you have been through a rough patch or you are recovering from a profoundly painful loss or illness, you know what I'm talking about. 

One of my favorite lines from Rush's song, "Tom Sawyer" is "He knows changes aren't permanent, but change is."

Change is going to happen whether we want it to or not.  Some changes are welcome and we make them happen.  Other changes, like job loss, illness, natural disasters, and death often come unexpectedly and we cannot stop them.

I believe that we can weather changes with the support of those who love us.  Despite this support, some changes are hard to bear.

Who loves and supports you as you go through changes?  Take the words of Louise L. Hay and decide that you are in charge of the positive changes you are making in your life.  If you are a life-long learner and you're growth oriented, you are doing great!

If you're going through some changes in your relationship and you'd like to get back on a growth path so you and your spouse/partner/girlfriend/boyfriend can begin to co-create the life you want together, check out my new True Love Coaching Calls for Couples.  They begin in February!