True Love After 40

Your first date is important, wouldn't you agree?  I want to go into some more detail about how you dress on a first date in this blog entry.

1.      If you are a woman, you can make a lasting impression by focusing on your femininity.  That means wearing a skirt or dress.  Most men will do a double take when they see a woman in a flowing skirt.  Long and flowing is preferable.  Keep a sense of mystery about you by leaving the mini-skirt in the closet.

2.      Men, many women have complained to me that men under-dress for dates, so you can score big points with her simply by wearing (color-coordinated) dress pants and a shirt that buttons.  You can leave off the tie and jacket for a simple first date.

3.      Make sure you look good and smell good.  A small amount of perfume or cologne goes along way!  Put a small amount of your favorite scent on at least 20 minutes before you arrive so your date doesn't smell you before seeing you.

4.      Remember the breath mints?  Still important!  So is proper hygiene.  If you're a man, make sure you are freshly shaved or if you have a beard, make sure it's neatly trimmed.  Women, invest in hair products that make your hair smooth and touchable.  He may not touch on a first date, but you want him to want to!

More tips to follow!  I'd love to know your ideas for a first date,so leave a comment.

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